I think back to one of our first dates, when it was all beginning, the date he freaked out and accidentally threw a spider on me (that particular story will be in the book,). It makes me laugh every single time. Come to think of it, I've seen him at his not-best too. But that's ok. That's marriage. We should have put that in our vows:
"In sickness and in health. Come hell, highwater, butts hanging out of pants in ER's and spider throwing."